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• 1 5 high value feminine qualities (E-Book Mat)

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• What are the 'confidence DO's?

  - show that you are a high value woman with standards by letting him earn time with you 
  - your time is valuable, you value and respect your friendships and therefore you're not going to waste your weekend with someone you don't know - Yet. So the plan the first few dates on weekdays or evenings. 
  - let him take you on casual, short dates. Is he fun, kind and generous? Does he treat you well? If so, you can agree to Friday or Saturday dates that are longer and more involved. 

• How do you communicate when he ask you out but you've already made plans?

  Say: I have already made plans, but I'd love to go out with you. (is there another time next week perhaps? You're available Thursday and Friday evening.

• What can you say when he suggest a weekend to the mountains but you're uncomfortable with that because it's just too soon for an overnight adventure. What can you let him know?

  Say: it sounds lovely and very romantic, but I'd like to save that for another time when i've gotten to know each other better.

• How do you communicate when you're not sure that he's for you and he wants a date with you?

  Do: keep the dates short and out of the 'prime time' of weekend evenings 
  
  say: I'm enjoying to know you and I would love to see you, but I'm already busy Saturday night. 

• My three MUST-HAVES in a man (excercise)

  - interested in personal development 
  - confident (and likes to try new/adventures things) 
  - humor! 

• Where is a high quality man looking for?

  Not a woman who is a provider, who is powerful and accomplished and has a great resumé or a photographic memory 
  BUT 
  - a woman who can bring him more aliveness and FUN into his life. 
  - A partner who will take him OUT of his head and into his heart and soul and body. 
  - someone he with whom he can laugh, relax and let loose. (someone, with whom, he feels great in her presence) 
  - a woman who will make his life more fun, more playful.

• What do woman mistakenly think?

  That the qualities a man wants in a woman are exactly the same thing she's looking for: someone who can provide, be decisive, ambitious, and accomplished. 
  
  (that's maybe why, when on a date, they calculate and strategize exactly what to reveal about themselves, they are poised but controlled, and they don't let a man see their softer, playful and more quirky side. They're afraid of revealing their feelings about anything) 

• What is the good news about charisma?

  that I AM charismatic. (it's the parts of my personality I show to my friends and those who I love most) 
  
  having charisma isn't about being popular. It's not about having huge social network and 100 close friends. You can be an introvert, very 'bookish' and philosophical, but charismatic. And guess what? You'll attract exactly the kind of man who will love and appreciate the quirky, unique and bookish woman. 

• What are the three phrases that men loves to hear because it makes them feel celebrated?

  - that's brilliant! 
  - you're my hero. 
  - you saved me. 

• Name some examples on how you can compliment his thinking and decision-making.

  - 'you know? That is a brilliant idea to check out that art festival this weekend. I'd love to go' 
  - 'i was feeling so stressed today and you making dinner made my day! You're my hero! 
  - 'Thanks for that work tip the other day. You saved me!'