Summary: Primary Relationships

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• Which attachment representations are there?

  - preoccupied: negative view of themselves, positive view of others. Unworthiness in relationships > pleasers
  - dismissing avoidant: positive view of themselves, others not worth trusting. Fearful to open up. Rather rely on themselves than others
  - fearful avoidant: strong desire to be in relationship, but feeling uncomfortable. 
  - secure: safe haven from which you can build relationships. In times of stress we go to primary relationships. Comfortable with intimacy and autonomy.

• What is the difference between revisionist perspective and prototype perspective?

  Revisionist: representations can always change when new experiences are incompatible with previous experiences
  Prototype: representations in infancy are generally stable and shape new experiences

• Maak de zin af:58% van de kinderen hebben dezelfde attachtment ...........

  Als hun ouders toen zij klein waren
  
  parent's early attachment --> parent attachment representation > parent behavior > infant attachment style

• What do we mean with the fact that family members are interdependent?

  Change will lead to change

• What happens in adolescene with family time?

  Decrease time spent with family
  Increase time spent with peers (girls) or alone (boys)

• Which changes can also been seen in familys with adolescence?

  - midlife crisis meets adolescene: reality check for parents
  - change in needs and functions: finances changes > push finance to limit
  - adolescents gain autonomy

• Which kind of parenting styles do we have?

  - authoritarian: adult centered, strict rules and expectations, little warmth and communication 
  - permissive: child centered, no guidelines, nondirective, avoid confrontation, warm and nurturing
  -   authoritative: child centered, democratic, flexible, warm accepting, trusting and monitoring
  - uninvolved: adult centered, passive dismissing, poor or little communication, do not supervise behavior

• True or falseTeens and parents hold diferent values and disagree on pretty much everything

  False because core values are the same
  True because matters of personal taste (teens want to decide) > generation gap

• True or false: Parenthood decreases relationship satisfaction

  True

• True or falseThe more children, the lower relationship satisfaction

  True